@fasciation You do. 👍 It's as simple as that.
@Gina Probably for the best. Good excuse to get out and about with doggo, detach and disconnect. I hope you feel improved soon. 👍
@Gina YOU have time for it. You've hit some arbitrary limit and you need to take a step back and rest. It's not weakness or vulnerability, it's taking care of yourself.
I have one of those. Sometimes it's pretty full and it doesn't take much for it to overflow. Sometimes I can keep adding to it and it's fine, it has plenty of room for more.
Take a few days to remove some pebbles from your bucket. No shame in that. 👍
A lot of #mentalhealth therapy modalities like CBT and ACT talk about "Acceptance". This can be confusing or difficult to accept for many as we are accustomed to equate acceptance to surrender. Well, it is not!
Acceptance = Acknowledging something exists. This is good.
Surrender = Believing nothing can be done about it. Not so much
The following graphic depicts very clearly What is acceptance.
@Gina On its way! 😉
@Gina A colleague just bought me an early Xmas present of a infosec book he'd had recommended to him by a woman he met at a conference who worked in the cybersecurity sector. Of course my reaction was "lol, right". 😉
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This says a lot about the 60’s
@requiem Joelle Jones?
Less Obvious Factors That Lead To #mentalhealth Issues:
- Saying yes to everything
- Trying to fix/ save everyone
- People pleasing
- Putting others needs above yours
- Defining a "successful life" based on another's/ society's expectations
Your mental health matters. Prioritize it
@rnd I'd still rather chew my own testicles off than give one moment of my time to Chris Roberts after the debacle that is Star Citizen. 😁
@korruptor You only make Sunday roast in winter? 😮
@Gina Oh my. Er, good luck?
@dockers Hahaha. Like it.
@voidspace It's the Goddess Chant, typically done in Wiccan circles (pun intended). 😁
I find it's quite a useful mantra to ground me (and gods know, I need that this week!)
I Have Had #mentalhealth Issues: I'm not seeking attention or sympathy.
I'm sharing because:
• Many suffer in silence and I want those people to know that they aren't alone.
• There's times I haven't been easy to be around - I'm sorry, but that're most difficult for me too.
• The more I've hid my "inner world", the more distant I've felt from everyone.
• More people should talk about it, share and appreciate the "real" version of us not the"filtered" version of social media. #endthestigma
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